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#1 Justin

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Posted 16 May 2011 - 10:08 AM

Hey, I am constantly getting bullied at school by a boy in the year above me, for egsample: Today I got pushed into him by his friend, he then grabbed me by the neck, swore are me, punched me in the gut and then he threw we into a hedge.

It is things like that he does everyday, and quite frankly, i dont like it. I dont know what to do about because if i tell on him he will beat me up, and get all his friends to join in, i am scared of him.

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Posted 16 May 2011 - 10:12 AM

Hey, I am constantly getting bullied at school by a boy in the year above me, for egsample: Today I got pushed into him by his friend, he then grabbed me by the neck, swore are me, punched me in the gut and then he threw we into a hedge.

It is things like that he does everyday, and quite frankly, i dont like it. I dont know what to do about because if i tell on him he will beat me up, and get all his friends to join in, i am scared of him.

Please help me

-Justin



Talk with a teacher about you problem's. If you dont want to you need to take steps to solve this. And also tell it to your father and mother.

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Posted 16 May 2011 - 10:14 AM

Do what ^ said. Talk to your parents and teachers.

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#4 Justin

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Posted 16 May 2011 - 10:21 AM

Ok, but the thing that worries me is that he will find out it was me and beat me up, i will try it though.

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Posted 16 May 2011 - 10:30 AM

The best thing I can think of is to go to your teacher and parents, but make clear that you're afraid that they'll bully you more than before if they find out.

Good luck with it.


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Posted 16 May 2011 - 10:49 AM

I didnt think of that thanks RNB and Everyone for the advise.

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Posted 16 May 2011 - 10:50 AM

If you stress to the teachers that you've been to the teachers before, and he found out and bullied you more they'll sort him out.
Ask the teachers of the possibility of getting his parents in and your parents in, his parents will be ashamed of him and he will stop real-quick-fast.


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Posted 16 May 2011 - 10:55 AM

It might seem like it would get worse if you tell on him, but he will know that he can't harm you anymore, since he would get trouble with the teachers right away.



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Posted 16 May 2011 - 11:18 AM

^Yeah, just tell someone, like a teacher or parent. Adults can sort it out the best way.

By the way, how old are you?


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Posted 16 May 2011 - 11:27 AM

^Yeah, just tell someone, like a teacher or parent. Adults can sort it out the best way.

By the way, how old are you?


I am 13, I am not being rude but why?

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Posted 16 May 2011 - 11:32 AM

What grade and country are you in?


#12 Justin

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Posted 16 May 2011 - 12:36 PM

I am in year 9, and i am from england.

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Posted 16 May 2011 - 01:57 PM

^ Ahah, GCSE's next year, what are you thinking of taking?

And yeah, just make sure you tell the teachers that he will bully you more if he finds out that you told.


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Posted 16 May 2011 - 02:09 PM

The thing is, telling the teacher is not always good. To be honest, quite a few of them won't do much. You tell them, they tell the guy off and he will probably carry on bullying you behind their backs.

What you really want is some good friends, some good hardcore friends (lol, just wanted to add hardcore in). They will have your back and hopefully they will help you when ever you need.

EDIT: I am in year 9 too :D


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Posted 16 May 2011 - 03:00 PM

I know some teachers won't do much and they could put you into a worse position. think about who you go to and how you go to them.

I am sure you have a good relationship with at least one teacher. Ask to talk in confidentiality. That you do not need something done immediately but that you need help, because you want this to end.

Hopefully that teacher or adult can help. hopefully by catching him, and as someone above said, talk to him and his parents, about what he is doing, and also the cost of it.

Good Luck, and as you can see from the responses, you have plenty of individuals who support you and want to see you safe and well.

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Posted 16 May 2011 - 03:23 PM

Couldn't punching you in the gut, grabbing you by the neck, and throwing you into a hedge be considered assault? If so, you could call the cops on him.

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Posted 17 May 2011 - 09:44 AM

^ Ahah, GCSE's next year, what are you thinking of taking?

And yeah, just make sure you tell the teachers that he will bully you more if he finds out that you told.


I have chosen, they are P.E, Maths, Science, Music and French.

Thanks all, and i am not sure SuperTKDKid, i dont want to call the cops anyway :P

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#18 MichaelG

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Posted 17 May 2011 - 10:04 AM

I was wondering as it could be worse at different ages.

Just do what the others have said, and hopefully it will get better.


#19 Justin

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Posted 17 May 2011 - 10:16 AM

I was wondering as it could be worse at different ages.

Just do what the others have said, and hopefully it will get better.


Will do, thanks for everyones advise, it has been greatly apretiated. I knew i could count on you guys.

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Posted 17 May 2011 - 10:22 AM

No problem, I find it really sad when someone abbuses someone else.

Like today, people were mocking my friend, and I stood by him, and helped him ignore them pesky, immature people ;)